A friend asked me how my pivotal day went. What’s a pivotal day? It’s the day you’re told information that will forever change your life. The day I was diagnosed with a severe and rare case of FAP colorectal cancer. 20+ years beyond the average age of diagnosis, I was told it would be a long, hard road, but that I could recover. This was the moment where I had a choice to make – complain how unfair life is or challenge it. I chose me along with a positive attitude. I’m a natural optimist so the choice was easy.
My body is different, my mind has grown. Both are amazing at redirection and adaptation. Now, my body, mind, and will is stronger. I credit my physical and mental recovery to walking my 100 lb dog, Charlie, every day that I was able; my family, and daughters who still asked for braids before school knowing how much I needed to maintain my routine; along with friends who listened and lingered. On October 24, 2023, just like that same day in 2011, I put the top down on my convertible and let the sun shine down on me, thankful and grateful for this second life given to me on a pivotal day long ago.
Mom & Me & F.A.P. 